I need help ladies?!?!?

Ok, my mother and girlfriends are throwing me an ornament party ( it's not the bridal shower) since I am getting married. Some people have not ever heard of one before, but here in Alabama they are very popular. The only thing is they have looked everwhere for invitations and have had no luck so, I told them I would look too and I have also had no luck, where can we find some invitations for it? Oh and another thing what is a really cute saying we can put on there that has to do with christmas and getting married or atleast along the lines of it. Thanks!!