Why do some people go out of their way to have , even if it means losing or hurting someone they love?

When males go to great lengths to get , it is for two reasons: One reason is that males are so incredibly driven by hormones to want , so much so that they will do anything, say anything, and even cheat on a loved one if it means getting . The second reason why males go to such great lengths to get is because great lengths are often required, since girls/women are typically very difficult to get into bed. Women are not as eager to have as men are, and they have so many natural reasons to be reluctant, since they are the ones who can get pregnant. So men have to work hard to get sex from women (even when the guy has a girlfriend or wife, she's rarely "in the mood"). So sex is very valuable to men and yet so hard to come by. So when a man gets an opportunity to get sex, he can't help but take it. As for women going to great lengths to get sex, I don't understand this because most women are not that eager to have sex. Plus, sex is so easy for women to get because horny men are constantly trying to get with them, so there is no reason why women would ever need to go to great lengths to get sex. Maybe a woman that is eager to get a lot of sex has self esteem issues for some reason. Usually when a woman is very promiscuous, it's not because she's genuinely horny. It's because she has issues. All of this explains why men look up to each other for getting a lot of sex, while women are looked down on. A man that sleeps with a lot of women has accomplished something that all man dream about but can't do. A woman that sleeps with a lot of men has done something that most women don't want to do but could do easily if they so desired.